I attended a funeral recently.
The casket was cream and gold, and the tone of the service in keeping with
those joyous colors. The whole program was chock full of hope and expectation
of meeting dear Rosie in the life to come.
I noticed something interesting during the proceedings. The family provided glorious white roses for everyone to lay on our dear friend's casket. I handled mine gingerly, trying to avoid thorns, then suddenly realized there weren't any!
The prickly things had been
whittled off my otherwise perfect, intact rose – as if to protect the
vulnerable fingers of one already grieving. When I commented on this phenomenon
to a neighboring mourner, she lamented, “Well, mine has thorns!”
There I stood, alongside another
for whom pain was a distinct possibility, something to be aware of and guarded
against. I, on the other hand, felt safe and secure within my thornless situation.
Famous last words...
The rest of my day was
thorn-filled! Admittedly, the majority were First World problems, but thorny,
nonetheless. Rosie’s life, too, was beset by troubles within and without; one
of her children confessed at the close of the memorial service that much of her
path had been strewn with sorrow and poor choices. She thanked her faithful
sister for standing in the gap while she pursued regrettable aims. She even
referred to herself as “the prodigal daughter” while begging forgiveness. Her
sister kept whispering, “You’re loved” while literally extending open arms.
Rosie herself never spoke anything but love for her wayward child, only ever
praying for her safety and well-being.
Thorns removed. Nothing but
beauty remains.
Just like Jesus, who took our
thorny, life-ending problem of sin and replaced it with His glittering,
spotless grace. He even took the crown of thorns on His own head, as if to underscore
that the ones who really deserved that agonizing headgear would never have to
wear it.
In Luke 4 Jesus quoted from the following passage, stating that He was the fulfillment of those wondrous promises. What a Savior!
Rosie’s favorite song: Testify to Love
The other two songs played at the service:
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