Somewhere over the rainbow
Way
up high
There's a land that I heard of once in a lullaby
Somewhere over the rainbow
Skies are blue
And the dreams that you dare to dream really do come true1
When Judy Garland trilled these classic lines 80 plus years ago, who could have foreseen the battle that would be raging over the rainbow in 2025? The gender movement was yet one of the “unthinkables” that Francis Schaeffer rightly predicted would become a "thinkable" in the future2 if good men continued to do nothing. However, over the past two generations, this colorful, streaming banner has become the symbol of LGBTQIA+ pride and endorsement. I find myself in the ludicrous but needful position of having to stake my own claim to the dazzling arc we call the rainbow.
The Basis
As a Christian, I place my faith in almighty God, the veracity of whose Holy Word has been upheld brilliantly by scholars far more learned than I (Josh McDowell, C.S. Lewis, Lee Strobel, and Robert C. Walton, among others). Because these astute luminaries have argued ably on the subject, I see no reason to add to their work here. However, acknowledging that many in our secular society scoff at all things Biblical, I leave it to my audience to peruse some of the sources referenced above if they feel the need to sneer at the mention of how the Book of Genesis relates the origin of the rainbow.
The Background
Simply
put, the rainbow first appears in Genesis 9:8-17, following the account of a
world-wide flood (which is largely confirmed by unrelated sources in the
ancient world, all offering various "takes" on the
deluge, which bolster its credibility).3 The rainbow
stands prominently as a promise from God that He will never destroy life on
Earth via flood waters again. It is worth noting that He makes no assurances
that humankind will not be subject to some other form of deadly judgment in
response to disobedience. On the contrary, the Bible does detail catastrophic consequences for wickedness, often in the form of
fire.
But a large contingent of Earth’s occupants today would prefer to think of the creator of the universe – if they give Him any thought at all – as a God of love and acceptance of any and all kinds of belief systems and lifestyles. As such, they find it easy to co-opt and reassign meaning to the band of colors about which Garland sang so poignantly those many years ago.
The Battle Stakes
As a young teen, I received as a gift a glorious, handmade poster from an artistically talented friend. She calligraphed song lyrics from an album track we both loved which, incidentally, expressed in simple terms how a relationship with an all-knowing God transcends human love and understanding. My friend punctuated the poster with the swirling hues of a rainbow.
I’m burdened by the fact that that image, which saw me off to
sleep on both tranquil and troubled nights, has been hijacked in my
mind by a political and ideological maelstrom, none of which is based on
science. What is scientifically indisputable and
fact-checkable is that, in the wake of the gender movement, women are being harmed and their private spaces and athletic opportunities usurped by
female-identifying men; children are being stripped of their innocence, and their concerns dismissed; life-altering decisions
are being affirmed and thrust upon juveniles, whose minds are not biologically equipped to make said decisions, by
“trusted adults” who are charged with protecting them; “increasing minors’ access to cross-sex
interventions is associated with a significant increase in the adolescent
suicide rate”;
and, finally, a vast array of serious health risks, including blood clots, heart disease, cancer, strokes, bone loss, infertility, type 2 diabetes, acne, and mental health comorbidities and
substance abuse behaviors are
found among the transgender population.
Allow me to drill down into one of the aforementioned concerns
stemming from hormone “therapies” and surgical procedures connected with “gender
affirming” treatment. It is generally acknowledged among medical professionals that
such interventions seriously impair fertility, including the very real
possibility of complete sterility. Health care providers attempt to compensate
for this by offering prophylactic measures such as pre-treatment freezing of
eggs and sperm. However, these options are prohibitively expensive and typically not covered by
insurance. In addition, the National Institute of Health admits that the ability to
preserve reproductive cells in prepubescent children (a process historically
reserved for childhood cancer patients) is largely untried and questionable at
best. This factor constitutes a further indictment of the medical profession’s
implementation of such life altering procedures among minors.
Readers are urged to view these facts in context with the national
push for no-holds-barred abortion (nine states and the District of Columbia
allow abortion
up to the point of birth) to the tune of over 64 million abortions in the U.S. since Roe v. Wade's passage
in 1973. It might seem logical to assume that abortion numbers have declined in
the wake of the Supreme Court’s 2022 decision which returned abortion laws to
the states (Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization); sadly, that has not
been the case. Increased access to abortion pills via telehealth
appointments, as well as “independent organizations… providing
direct assistance such as financial support, transportation, childcare,
translation services, lodging, and more” to facilitate abortions, have
actually resulted in higher yearly numbers of aborted pregnancies in the U.S.
since the Dobbs decision.
Coupling these daunting statistics with the stampede of physician
assisted suicide legislation taking place in our country (currently ten states and
the District of Columbia allow medical assistance in dying) and globally (a
mindset which resulted in the withholding of treatment from and removal of life
support against parents' wishes of babies such as Charlie Gard and Alfie Evans), one wonders if population
control is not the ultimate end game of all this social engineering.
Eugenics, anyone?
The Breakdown of Values
Lest
my readers suspect I’m wandering off into the weeds, let me clarify my point. I’m
attempting to show how our society’s love affair with death via abortion and
assisted suicide has brought us to the point where our kids are at great risk
from the gender identity movement. When human life becomes disposable, our
youth internalize this message. (Shameless plug: in my novel, Belabored, one of the themes I try to
hammer home is how the main character, Tanya, falls prey to pro-choice
arguments and subsequently questions whether her unborn child’s life is worthy
of protection.) Is it unreasonable to assume that the next logical step in this
continuum of death-glorifying worldviews would be for young people to be
willing to risk their fertility and, indeed, their entire futures on an
ideological gamble?
My prayer is that the resources herein will stimulate discussion among individuals who are willing to reconsider the prevailing social agendas. I’m offering to any who are willing to examine it an “alternative view to the alternative view” that is increasingly being peddled as fact. Declaring that “the emperor has no clothes” may have frightening aspects, but silence is a much more terrifying option. The stakes couldn’t be higher, or the potential for disaster more far-reaching.
The Blight
Our nation is poised to celebrate its 249th Independence
Day very soon. Amid the rejoicing, it seems intellectually honest to note that
the glorious words of our forefathers were stained for generations by racism
and sexism, as deeply as if the pens that set signatures to
revolution-heralding parchments held blood in them.
In a brilliant strategy, the gender ideologues, who are
shoving the scientifically groundless undermining of biological differences
between the sexes down our throats and the throats of our children, are doing
so in the name of human rights. The same pundits who are inflicting this
ideology on society are rallying their troops in the spirit of oppression that
fueled the actions of women like Susan B. Anthony and Rosa Parks. In reality,
this baseless, harmful philosophy is becoming as institutionalized as the
cultural blights of slavery and oppression of women were for a huge, shameful
part of our country’s history.
It has appeared everywhere in recent years. Public schools,
funded by taxpayers, have added gender identity materials to their libraries and curricula. Public
libraries, also taxpayer-funded, have jumped onto the Drag Story Hour bandwagon,
which introduces gender confusion to impressionable young minds. Even the organization
formerly known as Boy
Scouts has caved to pressure and opened its doors – and overnight
events – not only to girls who identify as boys, but to any girl who cares to
join.
Is nothing sacred?
Gender ideology is galloping towards becoming as ingrained in our children’s thinking as were the equally unfounded ideas that skin pigment and a double set of X chromosomes made one group of individuals inferior to another. The movement to saturate young minds with this scientifically indefensible concept smacks of Mao’s Cultural Revolution, with its emphasis on doing away with “old ideas”. It simply must be countered.
The Big Misconceptions
The championing of “gender affirming care” among children
relies heavily on a study published in 2014 in the Netherlands. The findings of
the “Dutch Study” have come under serious
criticism due to subpar research methods, small sample size, and
lack of a control group. One
critique bemoans the fact that “The Dutch clinicians chose
incommensurable scales to measure gender dysphoria, which calls into question
their finding that dysphoria declined following cross-sex hormones and surgery.”
This flawed foundation, which opened the door to the administration of hormones
and “gender reassignment” surgeries to at least 13,994
children in the United States as of 2024, is rightly giving pause
to many professionals weighing in on gender dysphoria among our youth.
Another misconception that has taken hold is that if young
dysphoric individuals are not given access to hormones and surgeries, they are
at extremely high risk of attempting and/or committing suicide. I addressed
this concern in my article, In the
Name of Gender. My assumptions were based on the premise
that, when one attempts to change gender, that person simultaneously tries to
erase his/her birth name and previous experience/existence while living as the
sex listed on his/her birth certificate, which can lead to feelings of
worthlessness if the “gender transition” doesn’t bring the desired happiness. While
researching Reclaiming the Rainbow, I came across some vital information
which expands on and even challenges those assertions. I quote below (bold text
mine):
Suicide
among trans-identified youth is significantly elevated compared to the general
population of youth (Biggs, Citation2022; de
Graaf et al., Citation2020).
However, the “transition or die” narrative, whereby parents are told that
their only choice is between a “live trans daughter or a dead son” (or
vice-versa), is both factually inaccurate and ethically fraught. Disseminating
such alarmist messages hurts the majority of trans-identified youth who are not
at risk for suicide. It also hurts the minority who are at risk, and who, as a
result of such misinformation, may forgo evidence-based suicide prevention
interventions in the false hopes that transition will prevent suicide.
The
“transition or die” narrative regards suicidal risk in
trans-identified youth as a different phenomenon than suicidal risk among other
youth. Making them an exception falsely promises the parents that immediate
transition will remove the risk of suicidal self-harm. Trans patients
themselves complain about the so-called “trans broken arm syndrome” – a
frustrating pattern whereby physicians “blame” all the problems the patients
are experiencing on their trans status, and a result, fail to perceive and respond
to other sources of distress (Paine, Citation2021)…
A
recent study of three major youth clinics concluded that suicidality of
trans-identifying teens is only somewhat elevated compared to that of youth
referred for mental health issues unrelated to gender identity struggles
(de Graaf et al., Citation2020).
Another study found that transgender-identifying teens have relatively similar
rates of suicidality compared to teens who are gay, lesbian and bisexual
(Toomey, Syvertsen, & Shramko, Citation2018). Depression,
eating disorders, autism spectrum conditions, and other mental health
conditions commonly found in transgender-identifying youth (Kaltiala-Heino,
Bergman, Työläjärvi, & Frisen, Citation2018;
Kozlowska, McClure, et al., Citation2021;
Morandini, Kelly, de Graaf, Carmichael, & Dar-Nimrod, Citation2021) are
all known to independently contribute to the probability of suicide
(Biggs, Citation2022;
Simon & VonKorff, Citation1998;
Smith, Zuromski, & Dodd, Citation2018).
The
“transition or suicide” narrative falsely implies that transition will prevent
suicides. Clinicians working with trans-identified youth should be aware that although
in the short-term, gender-affirmative interventions can lead to improvements in
some measures of suicidality (Kaltiala et al., Citation2020), neither
hormones nor surgeries have been shown to reduce suicidality in the long-term
(Bränström & Pachankis, Citation2020a; Citation2020b). Alarmingly,
a longitudinal study from Sweden that covered more than a 30-year span found
that adults who underwent surgical transition were 19 times more likely than
their age-matched peers to die by suicide overall, with female-to-male
participants’ risk 40 times the expected rate (Dhejne et al., Citation2011,
Table S1). Another key longitudinal study from the Netherlands
concluded that suicides occur at a similar rate at all stages of transition,
from pretreatment assessment to post-transition follow-up (Wiepjes
et al., Citation2020). The
data from the Tavistock clinic also did not show a statistically significant
difference between completed suicides in the “waitlist” vs. the “treated”
groups (Biggs, Citation2022).
Luckily, in both groups, completed suicides were rare events (which may have
been responsible for the lack of statistical significance). Thus, we
consider the “transition or die” narrative to be misinformed and ethically
wrong.
In our
experience working with trans-identified youth, an adolescent’s suicidality can
sometimes arise as a response to parental distress, resistance, skepticism, or
wish to investigate the forces shaping the new gender identity before social
transition and hormone therapy. When mental health professionals or other
healthcare providers fail to recognize the legitimacy of parental concerns, or
label the parents as transphobic, this only tends to intensify intrafamilial
tension. Clinicians would be well-advised that gender transition is not an
appropriate response to suicidal intent or threat, as it ignores the larger
mental health and social context of the young patient’s life—the entire
family is often in crisis. Trans-identified adolescents should be screened for
self-harm and suicidality, and if suicidal behaviors are present, an
appropriate evidence-based suicide prevention plan should be put in place (de
Graaf et al., Citation2020).4
It is worth noting that
suicide among the trans population can be linked to despair over unmet
expectations. Apparently, when a person reaches the end of the trans rainbow,
having exhausted all interventions to present as the opposite gender, there can
often be a tragic realization that all the surgeries and complications have been
for naught. Scott
Newgent, who attempted to change gender from female to male, says this:
"It takes about seven or ten years to understand what you have done after
medical transition. In the trans community we call it the seven-to-ten
year [sic] suicide itch. . . . [sic] And at some point,
you have to go back and go. [sic] Why did I do that? And then you go, Did
it fix anything? And you think to yourself, No. . . . and then you
see a transgender person who is older like you and you go, Did it help
you? and they go, It didn't help a f--ing thing. And then you go,
What are we doing then? Why are we staying silent?"
Newgent (who
is comfortable with people using male or female pronouns to describe her) also alleges
a lack of expertise among physicians who offer gender affirming care, citing a
huge array of medical complications and botched surgeries among the trans
community. Newgent decries the chronic infections and ongoing health battles she
continues to fight in the aftermath of “gender confirmation” treatment. Indeed,
a cursory scroll through social media will yield phrases like “teetus deletus”
in reference to removing healthy breasts to align with gender identity, and
other euphemisms like “groin job” that minimize the effects of “gender
affirming” procedures. Such catchy terms appeal to young social media consumers
while downplaying the myriad risks of these radical interventions.
Detransitioner Prisha Mosley, who miraculously became pregnant after attempting to change gender, describes the horror of carrying a child in her maimed body: “Mosley is particularly haunted by removing her breasts. She now has painful ‘rocks’ that have formed under her chest, or what her doctor says are milk masses stuck under scar tissue with no outlet because her nipples were reattached and are merely, ‘decorative. My doctor said some breast tissue was not removed and I have milk coming in as a response to prolactin.’ Instead of a soft pillow for her baby, her chest is hard.”
The Buck Should Stop Here
Finally (although I have no
doubt other critics could provide further reasons why assisting children to
change their body chemistry with unnecessary hormones and amputate healthy body
parts ought to be illegal), let’s get to the heart of the matter. Who should
have ultimate authority over these controversial procedures when it comes to
children?
To tackle this question, let
me allude to a simple example. Lately, I’ve been filling in for my church’s
regular Sunday school teachers. These are the folks who minister week after
week to wiggly preschoolers and inquisitive grade schoolers. They plan lessons,
stock cupboards with craft supplies and goodies, and generally deserve halos
for turning the Lord’s day into a workday for themselves so tired moms and dads
can recharge their spiritual batteries.
Being a somewhat frustrated
teacher at heart, I find myself tempted at times to ditch the lesson I’m being
asked to teach in favor of one of my own choosing. There’s a big part of me
that wonders if kids wouldn’t find it more interesting to study a lesser-known
text rather than rehash ones with which many are already well acquainted. Through
the years I’ve noticed an overemphasis on accounts like Jonah’s adventure in
the fish’s belly and Noah’s ark building efforts, both of which I believe to be
divinely inspired (not to mention that Jesus
referred to both as factual); that said, I know of so many less
familiar texts that could fascinate and inspire little
hearts. But I digress.
Here’s the point: I don’t
yield to that temptation. I respect the fact that the day in, day out instructors
have prepared a lesson, and I’m simply holding down the fort. While it might be
easy to jump in and wow the little ones with a whole new format and outside-the-box
lessons, I recognize that the church has entrusted the responsibility of these
kids’ spiritual education to certain people, who have selected certain
materials, and I am beholden to said people and said lesson plans.
Contrast the scenario I’ve
just described with the behavior of entities such as schools and counselors, which
in some cases have taken it upon themselves to support youngsters expressing a
desire to “gender transition” in the absence of parental consent. Parents
who wipe noses and bottoms, foot the bills, and dangle on the hook for their
offspring’s behavior are being excluded from one of the most life-impacting
events that can happen to their children. Tragically, courts have been known to
rule
against parents’ wishes on the gender question. Non-parental
agents are entrusted to come alongside, not overrule, lawful
parents and guardians, who only loan power to these groups to help shape
their kids into future adults. Anything more is an egregious overstepping of
authority.
My position is that no outside agency has the right to usurp the rights of law-abiding parents whose only “offense” is refusing to let still-maturing children make irreversible decisions. The parental instinct to protect their youngsters from unforeseen dangers (what Scott Newgent calls “seeing around the corner”) should be honored and celebrated, rather than mislabeled “family violence”.
The Backlash
Sadly, recent years have seen an alarming spike in lawsuits against groups and individuals who have refused to compromise their values. People with sincerely held beliefs are finding themselves dragged through expensive, often prolonged litigation in order to keep their jobs or stay in business. A tiny segment of the United States’ population is driving a narrative that has not been scientifically proven or ethically tested, and fear of repercussions is rendering many silent during this crucial time.
The Breakthrough
Thankfully, many voices of reason are adding divergent views in high decibels to the sweeping acceptance of “gender transitioning” young
people considered too immature to sign most contracts but apparently old enough
to consent to the lopping off of body parts. We are seeing an international about-face
regarding gender policy in many western countries. For example, in 2020 Sweden’s
National Board of Health and Welfare issued a report admitting, “People with
gender dysphoria, especially young people, have a high incidence of
co-occurring psychiatric diagnoses, self-harm behaviors, and suicide
attempts compared to the general population. Co-occurring psychiatric
diagnoses among people with gender dysphoria are therefore a factor that needs
to be considered more closely during investigation. Suicide mortality
rates are higher among people with gender dysphoria compared to the general population.
At the same time, people with gender dysphoria who commit suicide have a very
high rate of co-occurring serious psychiatric diagnoses, which in themselves
sharply increase risks of suicide. Therefore, it is not possible to
ascertain to what extent gender dysphoria alone contributes to suicide, since
these psychiatric diagnoses often precede suicide.”
Similarly, in 2023 Denmark’s
Journal of the Danish Medical Association noted, “… in Denmark and other
countries there is a much greater proportion of gender dysphoric youth with
comorbid mental illness (e.g., 75% in Finland). These conditions include
depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts/self-harm, autism spectrum disorder
(ASD) and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).”
In the UK, the
Tavistock and Portman Gender Identity Clinic closed in 2023 after an independent
report on its practices declared, “To date, there has been very limited
research on the short, medium or longer-term impact of puberty blockers on
neurocognitive development.” The closure followed a lawsuit by Keira Bell,
whose story along with those of other gender detransitioners, can be found in
my article, In the
Name of Gender.
Here in the United States, SCOTUS has just handed down a
6-3 decision in the Skrmetti
case, constituting a major breakthrough. Three teens and their parents,
along with then President Joe Biden, brought suit against a Tennessee law banning
puberty blockers and hormone administration to minors suffering from gender dysphoria.
The ruling, challenged only by the three historically left-leaning
justices, opens the door for other states to protect young people from making
permanent decisions in response to a largely temporary problem.
The Bottom Line
Despite
the possibility of fallout, I feel driven to state my position clearly. What
motivates me is the example of my parents, who knew what they stood for, and
why.
My
father once told my siblings and me that he had a driving principle in his life
which, at crucial decision-making junctures, kept him out of trouble. He said
he would ask himself, “If I engage in this behavior, what will my children
think of me?”
I believe Dad’s life rule applies to inaction, too. James 4:17 states, “Whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin.” Heaven forbid that be said of me by future generations.
My mother took things a step further. While Dad’s philosophy kept him from destructive behavior, Mom’s aim was to try to let no injustice go unrighted. This propelled her to advocate for an ailing relative who was divested of a small inheritance by a greedy church leader. Mom later took similar action when she became aware of a school friend whose mental illness threatened to render her homeless. Finally, perhaps her magnum opus (on par with raising her children to be responsible, compassionate adults) consisted of the following. After learning that the child of a destitute family had been seriously injured, she made it her business to obtain their contact information from the news station which had reported the story. Together, she and Dad diverted some of their hard-earned savings to provide a brighter Christmas for the disadvantaged children in that home. I don’t think Dad was ever prouder of her.
My parents didn’t kid themselves that their small contribution to this family’s welfare would ultimately change the latter's overall situation. A few dollars’ worth of toys would not get these folks out of subsidized housing or keep their kids away from drugs or predators. However, they found themselves poised at a certain moment in time to make a small difference in an ongoing problem.
During this month in which pride is being celebrated, I feel the need to join the ranks of those who have been paddling against the “T” part of the LGBTQIA+ tide threatening to sweep our youngsters into lifelong health problems and drug reliance. Many brave detransitioners are speaking up about their unfortunate experiences with this social experiment, and I don’t want them to speak into a vacuum that should be populated by intelligent adults. Things are starting to shift. I hope, through my writing, to be part of that momentum.
Like
my parents, I can’t hope to “fix” the entire spectrum of social change that is
sweeping this country. Nor would I wish to. The United States has long been a
bastion of charity combined with ingenuity, the result of which continues to be
aid for the distressed and hope for the downhearted. I believe many who are
buying into the gender identity movement are thus motivated and have the purest
of intentions. My hope is that, having taken time to seriously consider the
points herein, they will find themselves stirred to action of a different sort
and, in so doing, reclaim the original meaning of the rainbow for the next
generation. May it be said of us that we put “the dreams that we dare to dream”
for our children over our personal comfort and security, at a time when a
national nightmare threatened to engulf them.
1Over the Rainbow, music by Harold Arlen, lyrics by E.Y. Harburg: 1938. Performed
by Judy Garland in MGM picture The Wizard of Oz.
